Self-Portrait - Sparkle knit … curated on LTK

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Did anyone else first learn this from the Princess Diaries, too? 👑🙋‍♀️

dress: @mrselfportrait
shoes: @stuartweitzman
bag: @burberry

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Did anyone else first learn this from the Princess Diaries, too? 👑🙋‍♀️ dress: @mrselfportrait shoes: @stuartweitzman bag: @burberry etiquette elevateetiquette modernmanners modernetiquette elegant feminine seatingpositions princessdiaries princessofgenovia

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My super easy, comfortable, will definitely be trying to sleep on the plane travel fit ✈️✨👖🤍

#LTKTravel #LTKStyleTip #LTKShoeCrush

Words alone can’t stop a fire or restore a lost home, but they can provide comfort and help ease the overwhelming emotions the circumstances created.

If you’re the one grieving, it’s okay to let people help. Say “yes” to dinner offers, accept someone’s hand with errands, and don’t feel obligated to “be strong” for everyone else. Your well-being matters, and leaning on others doesn’t make you weak—it makes you human.

If talking about what happened feels too hard, ask a trusted friend or family member to share the news for you. Protecting your energy is not selfish; it’s self-care.

There’s no right or wrong way to grieve. Whether you need to cry, sit in silence, or find moments of distraction, honor what feels right for you. Healing takes time, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time.

Above all, know that you’re not alone. Even in the hardest moments, there are people who care deeply and want to support you—let them.

#prayforla #griefsupport #grief #spreadlove

This faux fur jacket from Revolve is becoming my winter in Washington personality 🧸🤎☕️

#LTKStyleTip

Because life is a fashion show, and why not wear feathers for Christmas morning? 😘 Anyone else rather be “overdressed”? ♥️

blue pajamas: @daily_sleeper
slippers: @wolfandbadger

#christmasjammies #matchingpjs #featherpajamas #sisters #toypoodle

My Nana used to say a host doesn’t need to give away all her secrets and that there’s something to preserving an element of mystery, but I’d love to know what you think! 😘

dress: @saloniofficial
earrings: @lorenhope

#secretrecipes #familyfavorites #hosting #entertaining #etiquette #manners #holidaymeals #tradition

Who else is with me? 🙋🏼‍♀️

In all seriousness, the ideal spot for a handbag is not on a table. Only items that are needed for a meal, like plates, cutlery, glasses, and napkins, and decor, like candles, flowers, and other centerpieces, belong there. 🍽️

In a perfect world, restaurants would offer stands, stools, or hooks to safely hold bags during a meal, but when that’s not an option, putting a bag in your lap under your napkin or beside or behind you on our chair are options, too. Depending on the setting, you might consider hanging your bag on the back of your chair, too. 👛

dress: @mrselfportrait
bag: @loefflerrandall

#etiquette #modernmanners #modernetiquette #handbags #diningetiquette

You could say it’s a little extreme, but we love it.💗

We tend to push our limits with how many holiday parties we attend in Washington in December 🥂, then we fly to Maine to be with our big, happy, (and chilly! 🥶) family up north. Then, we go somewhere warm - just the two of us for New Yesr’s. This year, we chose Cabo! 🇲🇽

We’re grateful for all of the merry and bright moments and time with family and friends this season, but there is something about the warm weather, quiet, healthy food, excercise, and spa time that is just what our introverted souls need. 🥰

We use the time to prioritize our marriage and faith, reflect on the last year, and plan and dream about goals for the years to come. 💫🦋

We’re also so grateful for @mcleanrobbins and her team at @lilypondluxury for making all of our best trips possible! ✈️🙏🏻

#maine #capeneddick #thewaylifeshouldbe #cabo #nye #winterescape #newyearnewgoals

Of these lists, which are your favorite? If you have ins and outs for the new year, I’d love to know what yours are, too! 💫🦋💕

dress: @rebeccavallance
bag: @loefflerrandall
heels: @aquazzura

#insandouts #happynewyear #newyearnewme #newyearnewyou #etiquette #manners #modernetiquette #modernmanners

Started off the new year in Cabo with a little Vitamin Sea as
Now I just need to hype myself up to shovel all the snow we are getting in DC this week! ❄️✨

Because etiquette is about kindness not criticism. Unless you believe the feedback is welcome and can share it an empowering ideally private way, it’s often better to keep feedback to yourself. 🩵

dress: @hillhouse

#etiquette #modernetiquette #modernmanners #diningetiquette #kindness #respect

Thank you to everyone who joined for this ask me anything style live! Let me know if you’d like to do another one like this soon. I’m open to specific topics and themes, too!

sweater: @loveshackfancy

It was such a pleasure joining @fox5dc yesterday for another live segment! In case you missed it, here’s a clip of our game of True or False on holiday etiquette do’s and don’ts.

Regifting isn’t always considered impolite, but here are a few important considerations to keep in mind:

🎁 Don’t regift anything that is super personalized, such as monograms or with names. (I think this goes without needing much explanation 😉)

🎁 Make sure you regift in a different social circle where you are positive the original gifter won’t find out.

🎁 Add a personal touch by including a personal note to the new recipient.

Have you ever been so bold a to regift something? (I have! 🙋🏼‍♀️) Let’s chat below! ✨🎄

And if I’m ever invited somewhere without a dress code, I may take it as an opportunity to break out some feathers. 😘 Who else is with me? 🙋🏼‍♀️

Also, tempting as it may be to get cute and creative, the best dress codes are ones that are clear, especially if you don’t know some of your guests super well.

dress: @tuckernuck
earrings: @lorenhope

#etiquette #manners #dresscode #feathers #lowkeycasualoutfit

I asked Alondra for an OG Victoria Secret glam, but more cool to neutral rather than warm and bronzy. She definitely understood the assignment!

I’ve linked my new favorite lip combo that she introduced to me here.

You can find Alondra at @makeup.alondra on Instagram. 💕

#LTKHoliday #LTKBeauty

Because comfortable shoes are so key to dancing the night away! 😘💃

My dance shoes are from @yamidanceshoes. They are designed for professionals, but if you’re someone who wants to be comfortable dancing for an extended period of time, I say - go for it! - even if you’re not preparing for a competition anytime soon.

You can find links to these and the other shoes I brought to Ireland and Italy last week on my LTK, too.

#shoesiknow #ballroomshoes #latinshoes #dancingshoes #weddingreception #comfortableheels #weddingguest #weddingstyle

In case you missed it, I don’t follow the old no white after Labor Day recommendation. 😘

Is anyone else still finding ways to wear their favorite summer whites this fall? 🍁

I paired this De La Vali cotton dress with a Self Portrait jacket and Gia Borghini boots.

#LTKSeasonal #LTKStyleTip #LTKShoeCrush