I used to think the statement “if he wanted to he would” was the end all be all. I think there is some truth to this in the sense, if a man is truly ready to date you and feels strongly about you then nothing can stop him from showing up for you. However I have learned that sometimes even if a guy really likes you he may not have the capacity to treat you the way you want to be treated or be on the same timeline as you. A better way to put it is “if he won’t another man will” it encompasses both of the sayings. If you’re not being treated the way you desire then know that there is someone else out there that will show up for you in that way. Your worth isn’t tied to one man. You are in charge of your worth. LTKStyleTip LTKWatchNow